The Queen of Swords is one of my favorite cards. It denotes a person who is honest and forthright. She is not a lady to mince words. She is also a reminder to not be ruled by our emotions and to use our analytical mind.
As far as being honest and forthright, this card is calling for you to do that more in your life. Speak up more so that people know where you stand. Just because someone may not agree with you, doesn't mean that your feelings aren't valid, especially if they help honor your highest self.
Please note that this card does not mean that you should be derisive in a way that hurts others, but to step up in situations when you feel you are being disrespected.
Outside of just speaking up, this card talks about looking at situations logically, so that you may be able to make the best decision for yourself.
First let's focus on relationship situations. All too often we find ourselves creating excuses for people who aren't treating us properly, or for situations that are not ideal. We stick around because it feels easier, or we're afraid of being alone, or losing someone, not respecting ourselves enough to seek out something better.
This behavior is detrimental to your well-being, and more importantly detrimental to you being able to experience what love truly is. If there is a sliver of you that knows you deserve better, or that you want more, have the self-respect to say so and move on to pursue what nourishes your soul, and empowers you (all while making sure you are taking self-care measures that ensures you are also creating your own nourishment and empowerment).
This advice doesn't just have to do with significant others, this could concern friends and relatives as well. If you are in a situation that feels toxic, all you have to ask yourself is “Do I feel good when I'm around this person?" The answer is as simple as yes or no, and if the answer is no, then distance yourself from that person, so you can center your energy, and go off towards what resonates deeply with your soul.
Looking at another angle, sometimes we find ourselves in situations at work, where we take things personally when we shouldn't. Again, this card is saying step back and examine the situation.
Don't get dragged into being petty because of a bruised ego. It happens to us all and it just takes making the choice to just take things with a grain of salt, stand tall, and put things behind you, so you can keep thriving with what's ahead. There is a certain level of detachment involved with taking things lightly.
It involves centering and grounding yourself, and knowing yourself. When you take the time to do those things, then you are better equipped to hear what others are saying, and processing things in a way that helps you expand and move forward, not retreat in self-doubt. Sometimes people know better, sometimes they don't, but when you are centered and detached, you are able to listen to your own gut about what you need to know to move forward.
